We refer you to The Book of Evolving Relationships Lesson 8 Betrayal of Trust You Are Not a Victim and Lesson 46 The Three Commitments to Yourself / No. 1 Trust The Process
After you have read these lessons, We can show you how to learn to trust.
Someone you care about has broken your trust. They have done something which has negatively affected you. It may be so damaging to you that you doubt whether you can ever trust anyone like that again.
The doubting of trusting anyone like that again is the issue here that needs to be addressed. It is not that you don‘t trust someone like that again; it’s that you don‘t trust yourself to know whom to trust anymore.
Your lack of faith in your ability to trust is the issue here. You cannot control what other people will do to you. Perhaps some will prove trustworthy and perhaps some will prove untrustworthy. It is up to them, and their levels of consciousness and integrity, which will determine whether they will prove trustworthy or untrustworthy. This is outside of your control.
What is within your control is learning to trust yourself.
TRUST To Rely Unto Spirit Totally / To Rely Unto God Totally
You are a Part of God. The Part of God that you are is inside of you. You should not rely on your Ego-controlled mind to tell you who to trust and who not to trust. Your Ego-controlled mind is Fear-based.
You can turn to the Part of God inside of you, the Spirit, the God, inside of you and TRUST To Rely Unto Spirit Totally, trust Spirit, trust God to tell you whether that person is trustworthy or not.
Ask Spirit/God inside of you whether that person is trustworthy or not. Open yourself up to Spirit/God and get into the Now and ask: Please God, help me to know, in Love, whether or not I can trust so and so (name the person/people/issue). My expectations of them are to be/do (name your expectations). Thank you God, in whom I trust, help me to know whether I can trust – so and so to do so and so.
Then sit back and wait.
Feelings are the language of your Soul. God/Spirit speaks to you in Soul feelings. Now, deep inside you, at Soul level, not Ego level, how do you truly feel about this person or issue and your trust expectations of them or it?
Now trust your feelings trust your God-given intuition to guide you to make a decision about this trust issue confronting you now.
If you now feel wobbly or uncertain, then trust that feeling to say your trust is incomplete now regarding this issue.
If you now feel solid or certain, then trust that feeling to say your trust is complete now regarding this issue.
When you learn to trust yourself, you can start to learn to trust others. When you learn to love yourself, you can start to learn to love others.
In the enlightened plane you will find yourself as you learn to TRUST To Rely Unto Spirit Totally it will be much easier for you to now recognize other enlightened people you can trust and less enlightened people who may not prove trustworthy.
Learn to TRUST To Rely Unto Spirit Totally to guide you, via your God-given intuition and feelings to know what trust feels like. Then you can recognize trustworthy and untrustworthy people and issues much easier.