Like attracts like. You attract the vibrations of people and situations into your life that resonate with the vibrations you send out. Your underlying thoughts, feelings, beliefs and vision attract people and situations to you to mirror those thoughts, feelings, beliefs and visions.
When so-called “negative” people or situations are attracted to you, you must stand in your integrity and investigate, to interrogate your underlying thoughts, feelings, beliefs and visions to see what needs to be healed. This will assist growth and evolvement to occur to ensure you no longer require the mirror of that negativity to be attributed to you.
To “positively” develop attraction of comparable desires and needs from other people and situations remind yourself of your good qualities, have clear intent without doubts and, through positive action, wait receptively and expectantly for the manifestations of like attractions to occur.